It’s really starting to come together!

We are so grateful to all of you who have sponsored pieces in
Lucy Joy’s Coming Home Puzzle Project!
Some of you we have never even met,
and yet you have contributed!
Thank you!

PuzzleApril

It’s really starting to come together!

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We are also piecing together the last few details of our Dossier.  Kirstin’s passport has arrived and Jason is starting a new job.  Thank you to everyone who prayed into that transition with us!  God continues to provide everything we need as we walk through this adoption process, this journey to China to bring Lucy Joy home.

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It’s really starting to come together!

To see our original Coming Home Puzzle Project Post…
https://www.rothfuss.us/2014/03/24/coming-home-puzzle-project/

Puzzle Project Update!

Thank you to everyone who has
contributed to our adoption fund by
sponsoring pieces in
Lucy Joy’s Coming Home Puzzle Project!

PuzzleMarch

To see our original Coming Home Puzzle Project Post…
https://www.rothfuss.us/2014/03/24/coming-home-puzzle-project/

If you would like to see a picture of Lucy Joy,
be sure to go to our “About Us” Page!

Now, just for fun,
We’ll let you watch it coming together!

Approval Received!

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We have received our I800-A Approval!!
This is one of the things required to complete our Dossier.
(As a side note, Kirstin’s fingerprints were never accepted by the Citizenship and Immigration Service, but they allowed us to use other means of establishing she was not a criminal!)

We have a short list of things left to gather and will then be able to send it all to China.

This is very exciting!!

Some of these items are simple to obtain.
For example, as soon as Kirstin’s passport arrives, we will
submit a copy of it to Lifeline.

There are a few other items that appear to our human way of thinking
to be on the difficult or impossible side.
We will have more to tell in the future,
and for now are believing that God has a plan in our current
circumstances to provide a family, home, and future for Lucy Joy
and in doing so provide a testimony of who he is to our world!

A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows,
is God in his holy dwelling.
God sets the lonely in families…
Psalm 68:5-6a

Another care package on its way!

 

This time it is for Lucy Joy’s Nannies.

We hope they will enjoy the snacks and use the camera to take pictures of Lucy and the other children she is sharing her life with right now.

When we go to China, they will give us the camera to bring home with us.

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We want to have pictures and memories of her life before she became part of our family to help tell her story, some of which has happened before we were a part of it.

“A good snapshot keeps a moment from running away.”
―Eudora Welty

More fingerprints!

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Well, I am sad to say that I received this in the mail today!

My least favorite part is where it says, “The FBI was unable to process your fingerprint card.”  So, I will be back to try again on the 19th of this month.

Pray for this new appointment to go well?

I am choosing to trust that the Lord is working this all out in His Perfect Timing!

Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!

Psalm 27:14

How did the fingerprinting go?

Well, if anyone could take my fingerprints and have a legible result in the end, it would be the capable employee working at USCIS this morning!

“Have you ever had fingerprints done before?”

“Yes.”

“Have you ever had …”

“Yes!”

“Well, I wasn’t sure how to ask…”

She could tell right away that my fingerprints were not very clear and then proceeded to roll and re-roll them many times!  In my limited experience with such things, she really seemed to know what she was doing and do a thorough job.  She also seemed to think we would be ok!  We should hear in the next month or so, and we will keep you posted.

On another topic, I must say that The Department of Homeland Security Building is very intimidating.  I was nervous and everyone was speaking English and for the most part friendly!  It made me think that our various appointments in China will also be a bit nerve wracking.  I also had the thought that I should have more empathy for the immigrants in our midst and also the refugees that Becca works with.  I am sure they have endured countless appointments and visits to similar places when they did not always know the language and when the faces were not always friendly.

 He defends the cause of the fatherless and the widow, and loves the foreigner residing among you, giving them food and clothing.  And you are to love those who are foreigners, for you yourselves were foreigners in Egypt.

Deuteronomy 10:18-19

Fingerprints Friday at 10 am!

We will be visiting USCIS Omaha as part of the I800 A process.

Will you pray that our fingerprints will be legible?

Especially mine!

Some of you may remember that I do not have the best track record!

Thank you!

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

Philippians 4:6

 

 

 

 

We have a name for our Sweet Sparrow!

Names are such an opportunity for moms and dads to speak words of life into their precious children! I suspect that even if they were not aware of it, many  times God has helped guide the thoughts of parents as they named their children. My father helped choose my name when I was born, and Kirstin means “follower of Christ” or “one who is a Christian.” How could he have known then how precious that would be to me as knowing my Lord and Savior, Jesus, is the most important thing in my life? Jason’s parents named him Jason which means “healer” or “to heal.” This is such a perfect description of who he has been in my life and the lives of so many others! How could they have known? We hope that the Lord is  guiding us in choosing a name for our Sweet Sparrow.  We so want to speak life to her and give her a name fitting for who she is, who she can become.  We have chosen to name her…

 Lucy Joy *** Rothfuss

 We plan to keep her Chinese name for her as a middle name, but as we are not at liberty to share it with you yet, I represented it with the (***)!

Lucy means “light,” “graceful light,” or “illumination.”

As we look at the few pictures and videos we have of her, we already see a spark, a light shining in them. Our prayer is that she would someday shine the light of Jesus living inside of her to the world!

The Lord is my light and my salvation…

Psalm 27:1

Photo Albums and Little Hearts

One of the ways we have available to us to try and make a connection with Sparrow before we go to China is by sending care packages.  It would most likely be costly and difficult to get anything through customs, so one of the guides who helps families while they are in China also offers care packages which families can order for their soon to be adopted children via email and paypal.  Despite being hard work, sometimes adoption is just plain fun… like emailing our order to Helen the other night at midnight, but since it was 2:00 in the afternoon (the next day!) for her, she quickly replied, and then sent us a paypal bill (in Chinese)!

We chose a little photo album for Sparrow.  We emailed Helen 14 pictures of our family which we captioned in English with things like “our family,” “mother,” “father,” “big sister Becca,” “big brother Spencer,” “big sister Hanna,” “little brother Michael,” “biking at the park,” “swimming at the lake,” and “sisters cooking.”  Helen printed them and translated our captions into Chinese.  After assembling the album, Helen sent us this picture so we could see it.  Don’t you love the Chinese characters?

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We received word today that Sparrow’s orphanage did indeed receive her care package and we are praying that they will share this little photo album with her and that she would be able to see it often.  We pray it will help to begin to prepare her heart for the adventure and transition she has ahead of her.

See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. 

Isaiah 43:19

Before You Were Mine

By Susan TeBos and Carissa Woodwyk

My new book arrived in the mail today!  The Subtitle is “Discovering Your Adopted Child’s Lifestory.”  So far I have only skimmed it and read the Foreword and Introduction, but I have already cried!  Oh, dear! Here is a little selection from what I have read so far:

All adopted children, whether they are adopted domestically or internationally, have some sense of connection with their birth families…  Why is a child’s birth story so important?  Many adoptees have questions and feel like something is missing:  “Information is proof that I am a real person who was born at a real time and in a real place.”  The bottom line, however, is that adoptees need to know their lives are not a mistake… This book is unique because it gently weaves a biblical foundation throughout the center of every adopted child’s story and emphasizes a child’s life before he or she was adopted – a part of the story that is so often forgotten.  It reaches the spirit and heals the hearts of adoptive parents and children… Consider this… What if adoption was an opportunity that God created to reveal himself through each adopted child’s story?  What if in the very act of receiving a child into our arms was an image of God receiving us into his arms?  No judgement, no criticism, just pure love and acceptance.  What if the very fragmented and broken pieces of our children’s lives were put back together again and again?  … Could it be that God would use the very thing that was so difficult for our child’s birthmother and our child for good?  Is that possible?  We say, “Yes!”  If God is a God who is about restoring all things, he must be passionate about restoring our child’s missing pieces and his or her heart.

I look forward to reading more and am hopeful that this book by TeBos and Woodwyk will help us to piece together our children’s stories … the part that came before us.

Make visible what, without you, might never have been seen.

Robert Bresson

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